The recent fires in Pacific Palisades, Eaton Canyon, and other Los Angeles County communities have left many displaced and needing support. Our hearts and prayers are with all those affected by these wildfires. We are grateful to report that as we continue to check on our family, friends, clients, staff, and colleagues, everyone is safe and out of harm’s way. There are no words to describe the feelings we all share. We are here to help, answer questions, and provide support however we can. To those facing loss or uncertainty, we stand with you during this difficult time—a heartfelt thank you to all the brave first responders protecting our community.

Here are some key points to remember when supporting a grieving friend or relative after a devastating fire:

• Active listening:
  Be a supportive listener, allowing them to express their grief openly without judgment, offering practical help when needed, and encouraging them to seek professional support if their grief seems overwhelming or debilitating.
• Avoid clichés:
  Don’t say things like “everything happens for a reason” or “it could have been worse” as these can minimize their pain. Avoid minimizing their loss, offering quick fixes, or pushing them to “get over it” as grief is a complex process that takes time.
• Simple expressions of empathy:
  Say things like “I’m so sorry for your loss,” “I know this is difficult,” or “It’s okay to feel however you feel right now.”
• Offer practical assistance:
  Ask if they need a place to stay, a way to get around, help with errands, cooking meals, or childcare.
• Respect their space:
  If they need time alone, give it to them. Sometimes just being present in silence can be comforting.
• Share memories:
  If appropriate, share positive memories of the home they lost to help them feel connected.
• Be patient:
  Grief is a process that takes time, so be patient with their progress and fluctuations in mood.

Donate to Local Rescue and Relocation Services

Here’s a list of resources to assist fire victims:

• American Red Cross: Visit redcross.org or call 1-800-RED-CROSS for shelter and aid.
• California Fire Foundation: Visit https://www.cafirefoundation.org/ for online monetary donations
• Canine Rescue Club: Apply to temporarily house an affected dog by filling out an online form: https://www.caninerescue.club/foster
• Pasadena Humane Society: https://give.pasadenahumane.org/
• Los Angeles Regional Food Bank: https://www.lafoodbank.org/fire/
• For timely updates, visit the Los Angeles County Emergency site: https://lacounty.gov/emergency/

Rebuilding After a Fire

Managing insurance claims can be overwhelming after a disaster. Here are some tips:

• Document Damage: Take detailed photos and videos of all affected areas before cleaning up.
• Understand Coverage: Review your policy to know what’s covered, such as temporary housing, rebuilding costs, or debris removal.
• File Claims Promptly: Contact your insurance provider as soon as possible and provide all necessary documentation.
• Get Support: If you encounter challenges consider working with a public adjuster or contact the California Department of Insurance.